Urgent prayer request.... my son was in a single vehicle accident tonight... rolled over several times, totaled vehicle, cleared at the scene for medical status...then he was booked ... DUI... first time ever!!! But I strongly feel he has a substance abuse problem.... he needs rehab and counseling. It's like every time things start going good in his life he has to sabotage it. He recently got a promotion at work, a house for himself and his fiancé,she got a new and well paying job... things were really looking up... and now this. Something is seriously wrong here... things start going well and he shoots himself in his foot!!! Why???? and it seems he really, really needs help with substance abuse too. I am asking for all available angels and prayers to the Highest Good for All Concerned. Thank you all in advance for your support and love. I am heartsick, relieved he's alive, angry that he has done this, lied about it to those who love him, anxious and scared, heartbroken, thankful no one else involved and no one else hurt. I am also a little scared this may have been a suicide attempt and depression. Pray and send Light that we connect with those we need to connect with to get the help needed to get him the help he needs to turn his life back around. I am at a loss here.
He is battling his demons and in the fight of his life.
I send him waves of love and healing. For you too.
@journeywithme2 prayers and hope that this is the first step to his continued healing and recovery. I’ve been through this with a family member. Same thing with an auto accident that started the revelation of the problem. I will keep him lifted in prayer and light. And also for you and those that walk with him. What you feel is valid. Peace my friend. You are not alone 🙏🏼
@febbby23 I am weeping with gratitude today and have spent much time on my knees and will continue to do even as I give thanks and love to all🙏🏻💜🪽🙌🪽💜🙏🏻
Sending Love and the knowledge that the Angels are with you, and your son. Archangel Michael for Protection and Raphael for healing. I also see Mary and Kuan Yin nourishing YOU, because these Ladies are the Ladies of nurturing and Love, & all of us Mamas have their touch on us, for they are the compassion and STRENGTH of maternal Energy. Everyone in the family is enfolded in Light's Love. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Harvard has done some wonderful work on addiction. According to a work-shop I attended there, first, will-power is an illusion. The brain gets high-jacked in any type of addiction but especially with substances because of the complicated physiology involved. (Look up dopamine depletion in addiction). It may depend on the stage of addiction but addicts sometimes refuse to go to rehab programs that require cold-turkey approaches because they truly believe that they will die if they don't get the substance of choice. There are some in-patient programs that offer weaning phases but I am sorry, it has been a long time since I looked for one.
I lost a dear, unbelievably brilliant friend to alcoholism and I always felt I failed her. The waiting for "rock-bottom" advice is dangerous. Check out resources at Harvard to see if you can get some direction. You want to rely on professionals whose practices are based on evidence, research and experience.
Good luck and godspeed.
@journeywithme2 I got chills reading this, and when you thought it might have been attempted suicide... well, I had to leave this topic. Now I come back, and offer your son, yourself and family my humble prayer of healing. I wish I could have done more for my son.
@pat-czap as I wished I could have done more for my baby brother all those years ago. I took him to the tow yard today to recover his belongings and we had an open honest conversation ... he said he doesn't know why he hates himself so 😢 He is open to getting help at this point.... I 🙏🏻 we find the right help at the right time in the right place ... mental health help for those in need and no insurance are difficult to find but I believe we find what he needs. Thank you all for the prayers, Light and Love and Healing Energy to Highest Good for All Concerned ... we are grateful and humbled by the Love.
Just a side note the Universe and Creator are with us? The name of tow company? Agape Towing ... ran by a recovered alcoholic ... very kind man.