They rescheduled it for September 11th. I hope it all goes successful and he has a good recovery. It will take a few months for him to fully recover. They want to see him for 5 years after the surgery to make sure it heals back correctly.
Hello Everyone. All you kind intuitive light bearers, I need some advice, psychic or otherwise....I am at my wits end. I have some psychic connection, sometimes I'll hear phrases or just get very strong impulses with complete ideas-not sure where they came from. Usually they are very direct and completely catch me off guard. Most of the time I follow them, when I don't - because they make no sense at the time- I usually understand later why I should have listened. I am absolutely empathic though, without a doubt. However, this current environment in our country along with major disruptions in my personal life have me all confused. So if anyone had any advice regarding my current dilemma, I would greatly appreciate it. My husband had been working for a very large national company and about 2 years ago we were told there were going to be several rounds of layoffs as the company restructured. My husband made it through the first two rounds, however ( as I/we had suspected for quite some time) the next round to be happening in about 8 months -he was told there would be no position for him. He began looking for another job about 1.5 years ago, and although he had gotten several interviews, no position in our geographical area. We have kids who will be heading into college in the next few years, and I have had misgivings about the economy ever since Mr. Trump has gotten into office, and have worried about us being able to afford their college education. We had such a hard time with the last recession, I have huge fears about our financial obligations- with kids going into college- in the near future. So he just accepted a job at an Ivy League college- that will offer significant college tuition discounts for our kids in four years-but we need to relocate about 4.5 hours away. The new job however comes at a whopping 35% pay cut. Initially, I was really happy and excited about moving to the new area ( I still am) because the cost of living was so much cheaper in the new area. I/We had found a property, that was affordable, albeit smaller than our current house and offered the possibility for me to expand my business (artist and I make custom ceramics for special occasions, wedding planner, and I was thinking of doing small cute pie stand). The property is in an agricultural zone, and I checked with all the town officials and everything we were planning to do was legal and zoned correctly. The property has been on the market for over a year- has been reduced in price several times. We made an offer on the property with a contingency to sell our own house, we were a little low, but I was expecting the homeowner to counter the offer and we would meet in the middle. The homeowner instead, declined the offer and said he was insulted-because of the number of days we needed to do the inspections. This sounded insane to me. We are relocating 4 hours away- I physically can't get there in 7 days to do inspections- we need an extension. We wrote the homeowner a letter- clearly and respectfully explaining why we made the requests we did (our realtor, I think is new & we also weren't sure she clearly presented the offer) and offered to try to re-negotiate & asked what exactly he was hoping for. His response was a bit obstinate. This property has been on the market for over a year. I really like the property, it seems to fit all the requirements of what we need, but his response is so off putting my spidey sense says he's gonna be a pain, and is he hiding something? Is the property worth ( is this right house) worth dealing with his difficult negotiating style? We are not sure if we should just rent, short term, hope and pray our house here sells quickly, and go house hunting again after our house sells. Or should we try to work with him one more time? I must say I am praying (and hopeful) our house where we currently live sells before October, after that we are out of money and we will have to try and rent out the property, which will put a huge financial constraint on us. In renting long term in the new area, I can't work from home ( like I have been for the past 8 years) and all the work I've put into developing my business will be put on hold, for I have no idea how long. If I can't work in my current business, should I consider getting another job? But that makes me sad and mad since I've put so much effort into this and it was part of the reason we were looking into moving to the new area in the first place. Add on top of that all the political turmoil, shootings, kids separated from family at the border and financial worries for us and the economy ( I totally feel a really bad recession coming on)- I am a big bundle of discombobulated nerves. Any advice... on whether or not we should try again with the difficult property owner, look for a short term rental in the new area and resume our house hunt after our house sells, should I trash the last 8 years of my professional life and do something totally different again, or will our current house never sell and we will go into financial ruin. ugh! So sorry for the long winded post. Any insight would be greatly appreciated. I have no idea which way is up right now. Thank you.
I would say that you have to weigh your business against the flexibility you would have renting. I assume there is equipment, like a kiln etc., that wouldn't allow you to pursue this in a rental house. If the new job is close to a rural area you might be able to rent an old farmhouse with outbuildings that would fit your needs. You may be able to find another one to purchase too that didn't have a cranky owner. Good luck!
Thank you Paul. Good point.
hi Shawn, so properties been on market for over a year, and yet he is "insulted" that you need a few days for inspections? sounds like he is trying to rip you off. (This is just coming from life experiences, not psychic intuition) best wishes to you
Thank you Paul and UnkP, I really appreciate your feedback. My gut instincts are to sit on it awhile... his energy feels weird, and he would be my neighbor. So not sure at the moment how I feel about that. I’m going to let things cool down for a day or two & re-evaluate then. Again thank you for your advice, it has been a help ?
Hi Shawn, I love what both Paul and Unk said.
I want to add that houses have the vibration of the people who lived in them. The people’s consciousness, and their lives are recorded in the walls and floors.
This owner’s energy is not good for you. You may be drawn to the house but this move is a chance for you both to evolve to a better happier higher vibration. This is a chance for you to both shed old ways that you have outgrown. You are a beautiful person who is opening like a flower right now. It is worth wait for the right place that fits you, a place that has been home to some nice people.
That homeowner has an entitled attitude that doesn’t fit you and your family. He’s unable to sell because he’s got an ego problem and that vibration is keeping you from that house. There also may be somethings about the house that don’t serve you.
I think you are going to eventually get a better situation.
Jeanne
I realize I’ve opened up an issue about buying homes to live in and considering the energy or vibration of the home.
It’s not black and white, just like people. People are inherently good and can evolve. That man might realize his mistake and come running and try to bring you back into a deal. If he does then do consider his energy and realize he’s saturated the home with it. See if you can find a good heart in him that you can live with in those walls.
The energy of a home can be healed with renovation and prayer and other means. Sounds strange but we could open a topic here on how to raise the vibration of a home.
Hi Jeanne - I would be very interested in a thread about raising the vibration of a house!
Shawn - I feel for you and am sending you positive thoughts for clarity. I also have been in a long time of discombobulation on several issues in our family the last few years. I completely understand that frustration of not being able to "see" the clear path forward. Hoping that the advice you get here from others and any positive thoughts we can send will be helpful!
Thank you Jean and CC21 as well :) It's so wonderful to have a community to share with and get/give support. Jean, so funny that you said about how a home's energy can be changed. We have only lived in old historic homes, and I do feel our family has changed the vibe of the homes we have been in. As for the situation with the home owner, I kinda feel like irregardless if we wind up in the house, the exchange we had with the homeowner was a lesson for me. It gave me a chance to calmly try and clear up a misunderstanding - and to honestly and compassionately offer a possible win win for all of us. If he did not want to respond in kind, or our proposal doesn't work for him- that's ok. At least I feel our family represented ourselves with honesty and were genuine in our offer. I have been trying to detach from the outcome and trust the universe has our back. I may be open to re-negotiating if he comes back with an open and fair approach. If he doesn't, I think you are right, I will hold in my heart that a better situation will open for us. In the meanwhile, the exchange was a learning opportunity for me for sure. All of your insights have really helped me to sort out my feelings and calm down a bit. Thank you <3