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Can someone please talk me down re: tarot and life changes? A few weeks ago, my daughter and I had our tarot read as a fun mother/daughter outing. I didn't feel mine made any sense ... he talked about how I would go through a separation or divorce, and he saw me moving by fall. My marriage is great, we have no reason to move, so I asked if perhaps it could be interpreted as a change in my life in terms of being at the end of the "motherhood" years, my son moving out of state for a job, and the next phase of life upon me. He said that it could absolutely be interpreted that way. I kind of zoned out the rest of what he said, but then he read my daughter's and was spot on.
I didn't give it another thought, but this morning I awoke at 4 a.m. in a blind fear that: what if the "separation" and move were because something terrible will happen to my husband? He and my son leave for Texas tomorrow, and I've been in a state of nausea and agitation all day.
He, of course, laughed at me and told me that's what I get for having the tarot reading done (he is of a religious upbringing, and barely tolerates my alternative spiritual leanings.), but I can't shake it. I'm sure much of my anxiety is being brought on at the thought of my beloved firstborn being 18 hours away. However, if any of you has wisdom to share, good vibes to send, or tell me to take the tarot (now I wish I had a picture of the spread that was drawn) with a grain of salt, I would absolutely appreciate being able to sleep the next couple of nights as the boys are gone! Thanks, and love. <3
@saibh The reader told you your interpretation could most certainly be true. Focus on that. Separation anxiety is real but temporary. Change is good but scary. It will all be fine.
Thank you for this. Several times last night I tried to write a post asking for support but couldn't do it. Still, I wished for light and feel that you answered me.
Separation OR divorce in the fall...that must be your son. It fits. Don't worry. I learned that worry is a wasted emotion. Most worries don't come to pass, and if they do, you've exhausted yourself and can't deal as effectively due to worrying.
@saibh, when I read the first paragraph of your post, I immediately felt it was your intuition talking. I trust your initial interpretation about the separation and this new phase of life you are entering. You're probably already feeling a big sense of loss and it can feel scary to be in that transitional stage.
I've had lots of experience with fear and rumination messing with my intuition. I had that experience last year with a serious health issue I was dealing with. When fear and worry enters the picture, I begin doubting myself, which almost always leads to imagining worst-case scenarios. Trust yourself and your intuition, @saibh.
Surrounding you in prayers of peace and safe travels for your husband and son. And love to all of you.
@saibh I second what @deetoo said. I also feel that your intuition was speaking to you regarding the separation issue. It is a big change to have a child leave home so I don’t blame you for feeling anxiety about it. Trust yourself and all will be well. I’m sending calming light, prayers for the safety of your family in their travels and, as Jeanne likes to do, visualizing an angel sitting above you and your home to keep you safe.
I also think the most obvious scenario is usually the right scenario.
I had a reading done years ago where they told me my husband was cheating and we were in a terrible place and it was so obvious but he was so anti cheating I could not wrap my head around it and the person said it could also do with money - well there was nothing happening with money but I latched on to that bc I couldn’t wrap my head around how a guy who was so anti cheating could be cheating. Of course a month later I discovered he was cheating…
your son is moving away- you just helped the cards tell your story.
@saibh Your anxieties are perfectly understandable. We all struggle with fears and we struggle to separate fear from intuition. I always remind myself that our busy, busy minds tend to go to the worst case scenario in every situation that gives us anxiety and fear. I am sending you peace of mind and comfort as you go through this transition in life. The father/son trip can be a rewarding time for them and I know you will be happy about that.
And p.s., I think your tarot reader was out of line with that interpretation of the cards.
@lynn I am sending protection and peace of mind to you and your client. I’m praying for the best possible outcome for your client. Thank you for the important work you do.