Elaine, there is no way to pull everything together in your head during a life and death moment that comes as a surprise like that. You are lucky you got out alive. Such a shock to the system to be in a situation like that. I feel for you with all of my heart, dear friend,. May you heal from this overwhelming tragedy. May our hearts surround you and your beloved pets with love.
Thank all of you for your kind words.
Oh, Elaine,
That is so incredibly hard. Our beloved pets are family. We love them and they love us and we can't help but feel responsible for them as they depend on us in so many ways
I truly understand your emotions and your deep sense, even pain of letting them down. Pain and loss and grief and change that is suddenly forced upon us is a terrible weight to carry. Your heart is so heavy right now, and worry and crying from loss makes it even harder.
You have too many things to think about, worry about and you are overwhelmed. Let some of that weight be lifted by knowing and remembering you got out, you are alive, you have another chance to be happy again in the future as things get better, as things settle again.
Most cats hide when they are scared. The smoke is so overwhelming it almost puts them to sleep. That is a blessing you see as then there is no suffering. Remember this, because the smoke put them to sleep, they did not suffer.
I doubt you could have even found them even if you'd risked losing your own life to find those last two cats. You would have been overcome by the smoke too.
You were so very scared and you were confused but you got out, you are alive and the two cats and the dog who slept with you are alive. Never forget that, remember that when you are scared or sad. You are alive and it will get better
You will always remember this frightening time, these very sad losses and you will mourn the loss of all you had that you miss. And I am so very, very sorry for all of your losses in your life.
But if you forgive yourself for having been unable to do more and remember you did the best you could at the time and it could have been so much worse, then you will know they are truly ok in a different way now.
Take a deep breathe, close your eyes, think of them, feel love for them, and gently tell them thank you for having been in your life, and that you will always love and remember them.
Imagine them crossing over a rainbow bridge of love and peace. See all the animals, all the people you have loved in this same deep, loving place of peace and just know in your heart it is all o.k. for all of them now. Different but better and at peace.
And bit by bit, each day at a time, you will find your own way out of all these emotions, these changes, all this upheaval in your life to a better more peace filled time.
It will take time, it's not easy, but one tiny thing at a time, one choice at a time, one decision towards peace and always, always know we care and we are all here for you. You are never really ever, ever alone. ?
Elaine, I am sorry for your profound loss and all that it entails. Michele and the others here have offered beautiful wisdom, guidance and love. May you find comfort here and may your new path be filled with many blessings and love.
Elaine,
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your pets. Know they are in spirit and are watching over you. (I could tell you stories..) Healing thoughts directed your way.
Oh, Elaine, I'm so sorry for all you've recently experienced.
To lose not only your home and possessions, but beloved pets, that is quite a tragedy. I'm so sorry. Hugs.
There have been many words of wisdom already offered on this topic, and since I tend to be verbose, I'll just offer this (besides good wishes and condolences)-a friend of mine used to tell me that trials are proof of God's love. Consider yourself beloved, and know that your spiritual foundation is solid, and with a good foundation, you can build anything your heart desires.
My life has been hectic and so much going on. I have been happier but I still have fears of loosing my family. We are making our place in the world sharing the love we have. My job let's me open up and make people's day. I have gotten so many compliments of how I'm a sweet heart. It feel a strange this change, but it warms my heart. You all are part of my family, at least to me. Stay safe and always spread love.?
Hello friends,
First of all, Elaine, so sorry for your loss. I want you to know that we all are here for you and everything will be alright. Your beloved pets are with you every time watching over you.
I was having a bad time lately and it was difficult for me to overcome certain situations but I remind myself daily that this life is a gift and short so I don't want to waste it worrying.
I want to think all of you for your good thoughts. I got permission for a new trailer. I know some people look down on trailers, but I always lived in an airy old house. You couldn't get warm unless you were a foot away from a gas stove, baking. A trailer has no drafts. I would like a cat flap, but my brother, who is paying for part of it even though I had insurance, doesn't like cats, or even dogs that I'm aware of, and he wouldn't like it.
Elaine,
Congratulations on getting your home approved. what a relief!
If I read your other posts correctly, 2 of your cats made it out of the trailer but not all of your animals. If your are worried about them in case of a future emergency, I think your should do what puts YOUR mind at ease. You are the one who suffered the trauma. You are the one who needs reassurance. Whether your brother likes animals or not, I think you still have 2 cats. If you believe taking care of your cats means getting a door, do so and be at peace.
Consider putting yourself first in this situation. Hugs to you!