Pam, I am so very sorry. As I was about to write this message, I saw a large heart pop in my mind. I think I am supposed to tell you how much you are loved. Lots of love. I am sending you that vision of love. May his memory be a blessing and may you find comfort and peace.
Pam - So sorry for your loss. May you know the peace of remembrance and love.
I am so, so sorry for your sudden loss, Pam. Sending you strength and endurance to navigate this terrible time. Lots of love to you.
Laura F and Jaidy - so glad your surgeries went well. Sending continued healing to you both.
What a nightmare! I’m so sorry, Pam. I can’t imagine such a loss! All I know is that it’s like being in the Twilight Zone for some time. One day, finally, you will feel a little better. Please keep friends/family nearby and perhaps find a therapist and/or group. Such a loss is such a shock to a person....
Anita
Dear Pam, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Our lives are so very fragile and everything can change in an instant. How precious are those days, weeks, months and years that you and your husband shared. I imagine you must still be reeling from the shock of this sudden loss. There’s no way to deal with this except slowly and one day at a time. I am praying for you and that you be protected as you experience this time of grief and transition. Be gentle with yourself. Give yourself permission to grieve. Treat yourself as you would treat your dearest, most treasured friend. Remember all the time you and your husband shared and remember that with gratitude. Gratitude will help you deal with loss. Sending you much love and healing as you find your way on this new and unexpected path. You will be okay.
Pam,
There are no words for such an unimaginable loss. My prayers are with you in your time of grief.
Thank you BlueBelle! The 33 years we had together really give me strength and lots of happy memories.
It's a stunning change to reality. I'm slowly navigating it.