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(@michele-b)
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@ghandigirl

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@michele-b

Thank you so much.

For now, i am allowing myself any crutches I need.

I agree...i am a warrior! I am a warrior for mental health every single day.

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Very nice to be recognized.

My therapist wrote to say goodbye and said that I am stronger than I think so I am deciding to be as strong as she believes I am. 

I am grateful that in these crazy dark days I have my friends here on this forum and my friends there in my private life. I am very blessed. I hope to be granted Grace to continue with this life. May we all live to see our days renewed- I think that's from TLOTR.

 



   
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 PamP
(@pamp)
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Thursday at 6:50 my mother, Shirley, passed away from complications of Parkinson's Disease. PD robbed her of her ability to walk, to feed herself, her vision, her voice, and in the end, it was aspiration pneumonia that took her from us. That's actually the most common cause of death for people with PD.

I will miss her terribly as will my siblings, her grandkids, great-grandkids and nieces and nephews and sisters and, but she is free of PD now, and I'm sure she's singing and dancing and having a grand time with her parents, her siblings and her friends who got to the Eternal Home first. 

 



   
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(@michele-b)
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@pamp

Oh Pam,

I cannot begin to tell you how deeply  sorry I am. Losing a mother is like losing a connection to our childhood if not our entire life. The loss of mine is still with me years and years later.

My mom died of long term Alzheimer's but like Parkinson's usually aspiration pneumonia as well. The loss of muscle etc control can be surprisingly similar.

My mother totally lost  the very same abilities years before as well as her ability to know who anyone was. Just one younger brother seemed to represent her four sons and my voice as her only daughter by the very end got response and last words from 1,000 miles away.  Many airplanes later i was with her by the end of the day to kiss her goodbye. 

It compounds the tragedy that we lose so much of them and their joy for years before.

 My mom was full of life and spirit and matched me me thought for thought by finding life even in the most awful times as hysterically funny.

We laughed until we cried over anything and nothing. Oh how you will remembering her great energy, her joy and spirit in such intensity and poignancy now. In its own way its so connective so heart to heart.

Even know i know she's still with me and it amazes me and fills me with happy sad tears in my heart for me and my mom and for you and yours.

Feel her close now. Light a candle and send so much love every single day And sing and dance and feel that joy right along with her!.  It all truly helps so much. Love love love to you both and to all of your families. Your great big wonderful family, her pride and joy.

For ever and ever together as one now!   ??? 

 

 



   
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(@lovendures)
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@pamp

Pam,

I am so very sorry.  Loosing your mother is difficult.  May she be at peace and may you find comfort and love in the weeks and months ahead.  

 



   
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(@elaineg)
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@pamp

So sorry for you.

 



   
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(@deetoo)
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@pamp,

I am sorry for your loss.  Losing a mother is so very hard.  She was our first connection to this remarkable earth.  My mom passed away from Alzheimer's six years ago.  

May angels surround you and give you comfort, strength and peace.  I am holding you and your family in the light, and sending you love. 



   
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(@triciact)
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@pamp

Oh dear Pam, my heart is so sad for you. I send you much love and light and hugs. Prayers too for you and your sweet family. Your dear mother is going to be dancing a graceful dance, and I hear the song "Unforgettable" already playing and waiting for her to sashay into the stratosphere.

Angels have met with her and she is already "light on her feet".

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(@herondreams)
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PamP, very sorry for your loss. Sounds like you will keep a strong connection with her spirit.



   
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(@febbby23)
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@pamp I am so sorry for your loss.  My dad also had Parkinson’s and it was devastating.   My heart goes out to you and your family.   Sending you love, hugs and comfort ❤️



   
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(@anita)
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@ghandigirl

 

i think of that loss and I ache. I wonder if she can make a little recording for you to hold onto your voice.....I’d have such a terrible time.

my heart goes out to you,

Anita

 



   
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