Who has more power to hurt us than our children? No one. I'm so sorry that you are in pain. Sometimes there's nothing we can do but let them go their own way, and hope in the future they find their way back to us. Thinking of you, ghandigirl.
@ghandigirl There are times... we have to make decisions that hurt us deeply... like detaching and moving on and leaving loved ones to live life the way they choose. As hard as it is... it is what must be done for one's own mental health and quality of life. Please don't harden your heart.... allow room...to just let the both of you ...just... Be. Just remember.. their life...their choice... and as your child... allow room to breathe and send your Love and prayers for her well being... even from a distance... and honoring boundaries that have been set. Yes... I did this... I learned this the hard way...you can love your children even if they are not in your life. Many years down the road... connection was re-established and boundaries were honored.
@luminous Sending ❤️
@luminous I'm sending love and light to you. Take care of yourself.
@luminous I pray you find the peace and understanding you are seeking. Take care of yourself.
@luminous Best wishes to you, there is a lot be said for ordinary things. A coffee and cake and a chat with a friend, a funny movie, a good pub meal. Sitting in the sun and reading a book. Enjoy the here and now as best you can. A good scotch the only “spirit” allowed.
Hope things turn around for you.
Enjoy Christmas with your family
Regards
Matildagirl
@luminous Much love to you on this difficult journey. May you find peace and clarity.
May you find peace and joy. May your health improve.
May you find happiness no matter what life throws at you. Know that we will keep you in our hearts and continue to send you healing and love.
It is a difficult time to be in England right now and when adding any personal challenges it must seem over whelming. I am sorry things are difficult right now.
When you are ready to come back, we will be here for you.
May the new year bring many new blessings Luminous.
May you find a positive way forward. Our prayers are with you. May the holidays bring you some beauty and peace.