My heart goes out to you Laura. I wish I could give you a very big hug in person, but I am enveloping you with love and light ❤️ ?
My heart is with you Jaidy. I'm sending lots of love and light to you and will continue to do so. I got chills just now...I'm so sorry you are dealing with this situation. I think the visualization technique Jeanne mentioned sounds good. Oprah has used visualization techniques for years and it has been proven so successful for her. I also like the idea that Coyote gave of the au pair.
I do not have children so my situation was much different, but many years ago when I was in my early 20s I left my first husband after only 9 mos of marriage. I caught him in our home with a younger woman and then he actually tried to turn the tables and hurt me so I ran. It was evening, we had no cell phones back then, but I grabbed my purse and ran like hec. I hid under a car in the street that was parallel parked as he ran up and down the town street looking for me. I hid there until he was gone, went to a payphone, called a dear friend named Steve and he brought me to his parents house and I stayed on the couch. The next day Steve and other male friends brought me home and escorted my then husband out the door. That was not the end of the story, but I just wanted you to know I do understand some of the difficulty in dealing with an abusive type of man. I was fortunate, because I didn't have to deal with him much after that because we didn't have children. I also worked on myself for about 4.5 years before I met my husband and remarried at 31yrs old. I promised myself that I would never make the mistake of having an abusive person in my life again. I realized I was much stronger than I gave myself credit for and learned a lot about myself.
I will send you light and protection and keep you in my nightly prayers. ❤️ ? ❤️
@triciact through being with my ex I am grateful for the opportunity I had in recognizing my value and learning to have boundaries. Nonetheless my safety and mental happiness as well as that of my daughters come first. This position is ideal for an older person or college student in our neighborhood - and I will visualize finding that person. Thanks for everyone’s continued light and well wishes.
Could all of you send a healing light to my ex-landlady. Her name is Eliza Keys and she'll be 79 on May 26. She had a stroke, and it must have been a bad one. They said her face was all swollen. Thanks everybody.
Hi @jaidy, perhaps my post, linked to below, will help with finding a novel solution to your problem...
@frank thanks frank- I have a spirit guide I work with and have been meditating daily. But maybe I have to be more focused. Or sometimes it’s better to work with dreams- thanks for the suggestion- I will dig deeper. Peace
Asking for prayers, light love and understanding to be sent to my 15 year old son. He is struggling with friendship, feeling isolated and sad. He broke down sobbing yesterday.
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Happy to send good vibes, but I want you to consider getting your son to a therapist before it's too late. There is an epidemic of depression in young people, my daughter is one of them. Had I picked up on the signs earlier we might have avoided a lot of heartache. Find a therapist who also has teen group therapy, it might help him develop new relationships. Act now before he decides to start "self-medicating".